Now in NYC/NJ

Hi, All My Adoring Fans!

Just wanted to inform you all that I have recently moved to the NYC-Tri-State area (NY, NJ, CT).  If you are interested in a session, please feel free to contact me.

Keep in mind that my life is a little crazy right now, so timing will be of the essence.



Why Contact a Pro?

What do you consider when you contact a professional dominatrix?


Youth, beauty, experience, reliability, punctuality, reputation….   Indeed, that is what you should look for.  You want to get someone who is experienced in the many facets of BDSM.  Some of the worst things that can happen is that you get a session that does not meet your expectations, ends up leaving you hurt, or broke.


You should consider contacting a ‘pro’ when you’re looking for someone who is not your wife or significant other to explore your fantasies with.  Things that your partner would never try with you, or be freaked out by it.


Many ask, why should I pay?  Why not?  Everyone has to work.  You don’t give your services-time for free, and neither do I.  My services come with many years of experience ~ over 10 years.  In all seriousness, I’ve pretty much seen everything.


When you contact a ‘pro’, don’t start with the “I just want to be a service slave”!  Believe me, I have plenty of guys and some women who are more than willing to wash my panties, cook for me, feed my dog, etc, etc…  Service slaves aren’t a one or two time thing.  This is a privilege that needs to be earned thru repeatability, punctuality, and experience at hand.


In all seriousness, you get what you pay for.  Trust me, you don’t want to skimp on experience – most of all.  I’ve heard horror stories that have left some submissives in the hospital.  Bottom line, not everyone is a pro.  However, ever since “50 Shades of Grey”, everyone is a domme now.  Unfortunately, it’s not that simple.  A good whip and a little latex doesn’t make a domme.


In order to be a good domme, you need to be a member of lifestyle clubs, work/train with other dommes, and always keep safety and cleanliness at the utmost importance.  Seriously, many of my clients bring their own toys.  This way they can ensure that they are disinfected properly.  If you play with a domme who uses her own toys, make sure they are sterilized and cleaned properly to avoid any infection.


If you follow these simple steps and research your market thoroughly, you will ensure yourself a good, kinky time.




DC Trip Cancelled

To my adoring fans, submissives and slaves –


I do apologize for not making it to the DC Area.  I was really looking forward to seeing you all again.  And, also doing some American shopping and eating some American food.


Mother Nature had a few other plans….  Both of my flights, my original flight and my re-scheduled flight were both cancelled.  I could not get out of the Frankfurt Main AM airport until, the very earliest the following Tuesday.


While I’m disappointed that I could not see you all, I’m still trying to plan a trip to your area in June 2014.  There better not be a chance of snow!



SKYPE Protocol

Okay, for all of you who don’t know what the proper Skype protocol is…i’m here to tell you!!!


  • First of all, assume that I am busy.
  • Second, send an SMS on SKYPE to coordinate a time to speak with me.
  • Third, be willing to discuss business, or don’t waste my time.
  • Lastly, don’t call and continue to call when I don’t answer.


I’m not running a pen pal service here.



Paraphilia of the Day…

ALGOLAGNIA….what is it?  Ever hear of it?  Well, if not listen up….

Algolagnia is a fetish where individuals find sexual arousement when pain in administered.


If you’ve ever noticed, a male involved in a fight, who takes a blow to the face, his penis gets erect from the pain that has been administered.  Algolagnia is within those lines.


If you take a look at a lot of vintage fetish clips/videos, one will find that there is usually a fair amount of corporal punishment.  The Domme preys on the submissive to see how much he can take, knowing all well, the more pain, the more gain!

As a Domme, I can tell you….I’ve had some guys that have really impressed the hell out of me.  One guy could take 150 lashes, bare assed,with a single-tail until he was bleeding.  Keep in mind, he could have used that safe word at any time, but refused to.

Here’s what I think…I think people feel things differently.  Whether it be pleasure or pain.  The feelings aroused during those times have different meanings for all of us.  Basically, it’s not a one size fits all world.  There are many combinations to explore.

Have fun!

Mistress Jade